Monday, May 19, 2014

How To Move On After Betrayal

When a partner cheats, the natural reaction is to feel shame or embarrassment, even when you are the victim of betrayal. Admitting that there was something so fundamentally wrong in your marriage that cheating became an option is more often than not a cause for humiliation. Read below for an article that explores how to recover from betrayal in your marriage.

We go over in our mind past intimate moments and wonder what he or she was thinking. We recall clues and doubt that we dismissed, and wonder what we were thinking. When the truth finally comes out, along with the pain is a sense of relief, because it validates what we intuitively suspected. But then we wonder if he or she loved me all those years — was it all fake? Was I in love with a fraud? We can begin to distrust our judgment in the future. Can I trust or “love” again? Can I trust another man or woman?

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