Wednesday, February 26, 2014

The Difference Between Stress And Anxiety

Stress and anxiety are two seperate feelings, but it is sometimes difficult differentiating between the two. It is important to pin point which emotion that we are feeling, and talking to a professional can help when figuring this out. This article highlights the difference between stress and anxiety...

It’s safe to assume that most of us have experienced stress in one form or another, whether it’s a deadline at work, a family conflict or an important decision. The constricting, chest-pressing fear can feel never ending and can put us into a state of unrest.
With stressful elements churning in our minds, it can be difficult to sort out how we’re feeling, and more importantly, whatlevel of stress we’re experiencing. It’s human nature to exaggerate, so there are many times when we claim we feel something more than we actually do. Enter (often false) statements like “This situation is giving me anxiety.” and “This whole thing is going to make me have a panic attack.”
So how can we tell when our stress is actually yielding to these conditions? David Spiegel, Stanford University’s associate chair of psychiatry and behavioral sciences, says that while the line between stress and anxiety often gets blurred, there are distinct things to be aware of -- including how these emotions affect the body and the root causes of each. Below, find five things you should know about stress, anxiety and how they really compare to each other.


Whether you’re tense or suffering from something more, the stressful and anxious emotions can sometimes bring the same feelings of arousal, Spiegel says. Stressful or anxious emotions speed up our heart beats, trigger rapid breathing and cause muscle tension. The similarities taper when anxiety yields to a panic attack, which brings about more severe versions of the symptoms, including chills, headaches, hot flashes and chest pains.


While there is definite overlap between stress and anxiety, Spiegel says that ultimately the two emotions come from two different places. “With stress, we know what’s worrying us but with anxiety you become less aware of what you’re anxious about [in the moment] and the reaction becomes the problem,” Spiegel explains. “You start to feel anxious about being anxious.”


To read more:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/25/stress-anxiety-difference_n_4833172.html

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Marriage Counseling: Does It Help Or Not?

Here is an important article that discusses the benefits of marriage counseling. According to this piece, the beneficial outcome of couples counseling has been called into question as of late, because some Huffington Post contributors have written articles stating that from their own experience, counseling made their relationship worse. This article also addresses some very serious issues that can exist in a relationship that may prevent a couple from getting the most out of counseling.

Recently, the effectiveness of marriage counseling has been called into question by a few Huffington Post contributors. For instance, in an article entitled "Marriage Counseling Made My Relationship Worse," the author leads with: "Does anyone have a good experience with marriage counseling? I hope so. In my experience, marriage counseling actually made things worse." While I appreciate this author's candor, the premise of the article - that marriage counseling doesn't work simply because it didn't help the author - seems simplistic and it's not based on research.
The truth is that there are many factors that can impact the potential success or failure of marriage counseling for any given couple. Understanding these factors is important in determining whether or not seeking therapy for problems in a marriage is the best decision. Findings from a recent study in the "Journal of Marital and Family Therapy," report that marriage counseling helps seven out of ten couples find great satisfaction in their marriage. However, not all research is that optimistic. In his summary of a consumer reports study, E.P. Seligman Ph.D.reports that marriage counseling is not as effective as other treatment modalities.
Why do some studies show limited success when evaluating the merits of couples counseling? Most experts agree that couples counseling is a relationship between three individuals and it's not the therapist's responsibility to "fix' the marriage. Author Linda Bloom writes, "Your counselor is a consultant, not a fixer." Early detection is also a big plus. Renowned marriage researcher John M. Gottmanclaims that the average couple that enters marriage counseling has experienced marital difficulties for over six years. It makes sense that the longer a couple waits to seek assistance, the more deeply entrenched the communication problems - thus making them more resistant to treatment.
Here are certain conditions under which couples counseling may not help a couple repair their marriage:
• The problems in the marriage are too ingrained and longstanding for the counseling to be effective. 
• One or both partners have already decided to end the marriage and he/she uses the counseling as a way to announce this to their partner.
• Addiction or mental illness is having a major impact on the marital relationship because it has not been treated prior to attending sessions.
• Verbal or physical abuse is an issue in the marriage and one of the partners is fearful about their safety or well-being so clams up in sessions.
• One or both partners are unwilling to complete homework assignments necessary to reverse negative relational patterns.
• The therapist is not qualified to treat couples due to inadequate training or credentials; or there isn't a good fit between the therapist and the couple.
One of the main factors that can determine the effectiveness of marriage counseling is the motivation level of both partners. For some couples, marriage counseling is really divorce counseling because they've already thrown in the towel. For others, they haven't taken the time to choose a therapist who is a good fit for them. For instance, Alicia came to my office distraught because she had finally convinced her husband Jared to attend marriage counseling and the sessions weren't going well.
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Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Mental health is about finding that certain balance

Mental Health is an area of our lives that we tend to neglect, and yet it is so important, as it impacts all aspects of our health. On a day to day basis it is best to have a balance, and whatever that balance is can be determined by looking at what negatively impacts you. Speaking to a licensed therapist can help you better determine what kind of a balance you need in your life Read the article for more advice about finding this balance.

My work consists of helping people create and accept change in their lives, and it’s incredibly rewarding. For these reasons, when the opportunity to write this column presented itself, I jumped on board.

Those of us engaged in this field generally prefer the term “mental health” or “mental wellness” to “mental illness.” Mental health is about balance: finding a happy, healthy, middle ground in psychological, emotional and physical functioning. Mental health is also about having the flexibility to handle whatever comes your way in life, and most importantly, mental health is about hope.

People often ask me, “How do I know if what I’m doing is weird and I need help?” My standard answer is that if something is negatively affecting your life in one or more realms, such as work, school, or relationships, you may want to talk to a professional. Everyone has trouble in life. Tires go flat, jobs are lost, loved ones die. As humans we experience a wide range of thoughts and feelings. Mental wellness is being able to experience all of life and to cope with it in a way that allows you to continue moving forward. If, however, your grief, depression, substance use, delusions or fears are affecting your ability to work, care for your family, pay your bills, go grocery shopping or generally live your life, then it’s time to speak with a licensed professionaal.

 Another question I’m frequently asked is, “What’s ‘normal’?” That question is much more complicated. It helps to think of “normal” as “average.”  There is a certain range of behaviors and feelings that fall within what’s considered clinically normal, and then there is a range of behaviors and feelings that falls outside what is clinically normal. Having these established criteria is how we are able to use the Diagnostics and Statistics Manual published by the American Psychological Association to diagnose and code the problems that people are having. This is not a one-size-fits-all system as some might believe, which is why the expertise of a professional counselor is valuable. The word “normal” has lately become taboo as people fear being squeezed into neat boxes that neglect to pay tribute to their personal complexity. But it is possible to recognize that something is abnormal and still honor the uniqueness of every individual, and those of us who work in mental health strive for that balance.

Read more:
http://www.starbeacon.com/local/x488687016/Mental-health-is-about-finding-that-certain-balance

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Lack of sleep and exercise, too much TV affects teens' mental health

Teens have a tendency to act moody, so at times it may be difficult to determine if your child is actually suffering from a mental illness. The behaviors discussed in this article are so common that it would be extremely difficult to control their use of electronics, especially in this day and age. It is necessary, however, to monitor sleep and television watching for optimal health. Read the article below for more information.

In these modern times, it can be hard to prise away teenagers from the clutches of TV or video games. Now, new research suggests that high media use, combined with low physical activity and lack of sleep, may increase the risk of mental illness for adolescents.
This is according to a study published in the journal World Psychiatry.
The research team, led by investigators from the Karolinska Institutet in Sweden, recruited 12,395 adolescents aged between 14 and 16 years from randomly selected schools across 11 European countries.
The researchers analyzed the participants for the prevalence of risk behaviors - such as excessive alcohol use, illegal drug use, reduced sleep, sedentary behavior and high use of TV, internet and video games not related to school or work - using a questionnaire called the Global School-based Student Health Survey (GSHS).
The research team wanted to see whether these behaviors were linked to mental illness - such as depressionanxiety and conduct problems - and self-destructive behaviors in the adolescents.

'Invisible' group at risk of mental health problems

On assessing the results, the investigators discovered three risk groups.
Teenager laying on the floor looking at a computer screen.
Researchers found that teenagers who had high media use, sedentary behavior and reduced sleep showed symptoms associated with mental illness.
The first group, labelled the "high-risk" group, scored high on all examined risk behaviors. This group was made up of 13% of the adolescents.
The second group, deemed the "low-risk" group, made up 58% of the adolescents. This group had no or very low frequency of risk behaviors.