Affairs + Technology

Are affairs becoming a more acceptable practice in society? The rate of affairs and cheating in marriages is growing at an alarming rate. According to a recent study conducted by The Journal of Marital and Family Therapy 41% of marriages reported cheating on their spouses both emotionally and physically. The average length of the affairs was recorded at two years.

With the progression of technology introducing new tools to make cheating and secrecy easier than ever many spouses find themselves caught in the web of painful affairs. Sites like Ashley Madison & How to Have an Affair offer troubled couples an escape while promising complete anonymity. 

As life unravels so do the traces of infidelity and betrayal. Often when the betrayer approaches the betrayed to disclose the affair a wave of emotions surfaces. The combination of shock, anger and disappointment felt by the betrayed partner acts is an active ingredient when mixed with the uncertainty, shame and regret felt by the betrayed. These stories sometimes play themselves out in unhealthy interactions sometimes leading to physical altercations.

Unfortunately, many marriages are unable to recover from the damage the affair has created. We believe that seeking professional counseling after your affair could possibly save your marriage. The affair recovery process is complex and challenging. It requires a strong commitment to addressing deeply rooted issues and a resolve to work at repairing the damage that has been done. 

Have you experienced an affair in your marriage? If you're seeking professional guidance for the recovery of your marriage contact us today.

How to Rebuild Your Spouse's Trust After An Affair

Cheating damages loving relationships and breaks trust. After an extramarital affair has occurred, the relationship is often so strained that one or both parties may consider ending the marriage. Emotional infidelity can be just as devastating to the relationship as a physical affair, and research shows that least one or both parties in half of all couples will break their vows of sexual or emotional exclusivity during the lifetime of the relationship.

Here at Gateway Counseling, we specialize in affair recovery counseling. Let us help you resolve any issues in your marriage and restore your peace of mind. The most recent threat to marriage appears innocently at first- friendships at work or online that cross the blurred line into romantic love. For both sides- the betrayed and the partner who committed the infidelity- this can be a very traumatic and painful time.

If you participated in an affair and want to save your marriage now, please call Gateway Counseling at 561-797-0631. Your first appointment will be a free consultation where we assess your infidelity issue, inform you of how we would begin the recovery process, and discuss how comfortable you are with your therapist. Afterward, sessions are scheduled based on your need- everyone is different.

Our experienced staff are here for you,

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Gateway Counseling Center is well known for helping people in their times of need. Emotional distress is a real factor for many people, and you are not alone if you feel that you may be depressed. Struggling withdepression is a serious battle, and we can help you identify some of the factors in your life that may need to change.

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Gateway Counseling Saved Our Marriage

When my husband and I started growing apart, we could feel the distance between us. After several years of marriage, we knew we needed to rekindle what we had lost. Gradually, we had begun arguing about non-issues. It felt as if there was trouble in paradise. It was his suggestion that we tried counseling. I was apprehensive at first, but soon realized that this was the best decision we had ever made.

The friendly staff at Gateway Counseling gave us an initial evaluation and saw that we were clearly fighting to save our marriage. They were very supportive of our love for each other, and they helped us confront some of the issues that were facing us. Sometimes, it’s good to have a third person to explain things when it becomes difficult to talk to each other.

We felt very comfortable at Gateway Counseling, and we would recommend it to anyone! You will know when the time comes for counseling. It could be what saves your marriage. If you’re ready, contact Gateway at 561-797-0631 for a consultation. You might thank yourself for the rest of your life!

Why Women Cheat...

A recent study shows that a considerable amount of women cheat for the thrill of the affair. Traditionally men have been viewed as being more likely to have an affair. However, the number of women engaged in affairs is steadily rising. This article lends a few background facts to the increase of affairs and how the internet is negatively influencing the trend of cyber affairs. If you or a loved one are suffering from the aftermath of a marital affair and seeking affair recovery counseling contact Gateway Counseling today.

When women cheat, it’s often considered a scandal, and never has cheating been as easy as it is now, when finding a willing partner is a click or a phone tap away. But what drives women to cheat? And do they stray as much and for the same reasons as men? Katherine, whose name has been changed, said she and her husband were married for 14 years. After undergoing major weight loss and multiple plastic surgeries, she began looking for excitement outside of what she said was a stale marriage and turned to AshleyMadison.com, the notorious dating website for “casual encounters.” “I was feeling very lonely one night,” Katherine said. “I was bored, on my phone in the parking lot, sitting in my car, pulled up AshleyMadison, and decided to open my first profile to see what would happen.” 

— Rebecca Jarvis