Muscle relaxation also calms the body. Sitting in a quiet place, tighten each muscle group in your body -- starting with your feet and working your way up to your head -- for a count of five, then release. Or use visual imagery: Picture a beautiful and relaxing place you've been to or seen.
Monday, April 28, 2014
How To Handle Stress As A Woman
Can Couples Benefit From Counseling Early On In The Marriage?
It is useful to make a slight distinction between therapy and counseling. Therapy is defined as "treatment intended to heal or relieve a disorder." Counseling, is defined as "the provision of assistance and guidance in resolving personal, social, or psychological problems and difficulties." Counseling's definition does not assume that a "disorder" must be present. Hence we refer to "pre-marital counseling" not "pre-marital therapy".
How To Tell If You Are A Victim Of Emotional Abuse
The abuser projects their words, attitudes or actions onto an unsuspecting victim usually because they themselves have not dealt with childhood wounds that are now causing them to harm others.
Social Teens Are Less Likely To Experience Depression
Adolescence also is a time of heightened risk-taking, which may be related to young people’s increased sensitivity to rewards, said Dr. Eva Telzer, who led the research.
Marital Stress Causes Depression
The findings are important, according to study leader Richard Davidson, Ph.D., a professor of psychology and psychiatry, because they could help researchers understand what makes some people more vulnerable to mental and emotional health challenges. They also might help scientists develop tools to prevent those challenges, he noted.
Thursday, April 17, 2014
What Exactly Does Serotonin Do?
Friday, April 11, 2014
Conscious Uncoupling
What is conscious uncoupling? You may have heard that term used lately if you pay attention to media news, especially with the recent reveal of Gwyneth Paltrow’s split from Chris Martin. This concept is raising alert in the divorce attorney and divorce counseling worlds, mainly because it seems like a new theory, but it has in fact been around for a while.
Conscious uncoupling is actually a great way to confront your issues while in couples therapy, because it forces you to own your part in the disintegration of the relationship. This is important for those in partnership with children, because often divorce turns into a war, who will win determines who has custody and is owed something monetarily. Divorce recovery therapy can help avoid contempt and still remain successful in your breakup, meaning that your children and loved ones are not negatively influenced by the split.
Even if you think that conscious uncoupling is not for you, it is still a good idea to consider counseling before heading to a divorce attorney. At the very core of this new concept –conscious uncoupling- has a great approach to relationships. Blaming your partner for any issues that you may have is not healthy for anyone involved. If you don’t work on yourself first, you will never be successful in a relationship.
Thursday, April 10, 2014
Tips For Those Who Love Someone With Depression
Depression can cause a suffocating feeling, and can make one feel as though they are completely alone and have nowhere else to go - even if they are in a relationship. These feelings can overwhelm the person suffering, but it also can be trying for the other person in the relationship. This article gives insight on how to love someone with depression.
Depression isn't a state of being, it's an affliction. Like a cold or the flu, it can come out of nowhere and hit them. Or think of it another way: your friend is in an abusive relationship with depression. Depression has cut off their ability to have other friends. Depression has crippled their social life. Depression is constantly putting them through hell, making everything more stressful, making them doubt themselves, making everything difficult. Depression has beaten them -- to the point where they will have actual physical pain. Depression has taken control of their life, to the point where it's easier to just feel nothing.
Military Members Experience PTSD For Reasons Other Than Combat
As part of a 10-year PTSD study funded by the Department of Defense, Dr. Joseph Calabrese said he’s learned that a significant number of soldiers who have combat-related PTSD also have civilian PTSD. He said soldiers can experience trauma as children, as adults before enlisting, and between deployments.
How To Handle Anxiety And Panic Attacks
Since a tight feeling in your lungs is so common during panic attacks, deep breathing can interrupt that cycle. Carmichael suggests three-part breathing, which is one of the easier techniques to teach those new to yoga or meditation therapies. Also known as Dirga Pranayama, for this practice you completely fill your lungs with air, inhaling into your belly, ribcage and upper chest, and then reverse the process. It’s important, Carmichael says, to work on this when you’re relaxed so that you can rely on it in the throes of anxiety to shift your autonomic nervous system back towards a calmer state.
Exercise Helps Depression
One group of 95 adults ages 20 to 45 showed that aerobic exercise was an effective treatment for mild to moderate depression, according to a 2005 study in the American Journal of Preventative Medicine. In addition, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services found that exercise can help guard against the onset of depression and reduce some of depression's negative effects.
Migraine Sufferers More Likely To Experience Depression
Professor Esme Fuller-Thomson, Sandra Rotman Endowed Chair at the University of Toronto’s Factor-Inwentash Faculty of Social Work, said individuals with migraine who never marry and those who experience problems with daily activities related to their headaches were at increased risk for depression.